pre-marrital sex

I know a lot of kids would not turn down sex but not all kids have that opportunity. I know not everyone in my high school class was getting laid. I did not have sex until after high school ended. Everyone thinks of the hot chick and the quarterback from a teen movie when they talk about this but in reality many teenagers are shy and not comfortable with the opposite sex.

Bottom line though. Do not do anything because "everyone else is doing it".

 

Wow. I'm speechless.

 

I've had sex with four women.

My first(a girlfriend whom I cared for deeply)
My second(a girlfriend whom I cared for deeply and was pretty sure I was going to marry)
My third(an old friend whom I'm close to, but never dated. It was a one shot deal and we both care for each other, but not romantically.)
My fiancee

Obviously those were all premarital, and sure it was my intent to wait until marriage, but I genuinely care for all four of the girls I've had sex with.

 

So do I.

 

Serial monogamy. Pretty much the norm there, QCH. I've been "intimate" with 5 women in my life and one of those exclusively for the last 25 years. Only one do I regret.

My daughter is 14 and we aren't teaching her to wait until her wedding night. We're teaching her that sex is a huge committment both physically and emotionally and it is something that you really need to be sure that you're ready for. My wife and I have been very honest with her about our sexual histories, we certainly don't pretend we where virgins on our wedding night. We hope she makes good decisions and is honest with us about those decisions. That's really all we can hope.

 

That - and you hope she's one of the 3 out of 4 mentioned above and not the 1.

 

Yep. Our school system is "Abstinence based." Only 3 girls out of the 8th grade are pregnant that we know of. Luckily, mine ain't one of 'em.

Of course, back in my day, we had 2 pregnant in my eighth grade class of 66 total students, so maybe things are getting better.

 

You screwed things up for the rest of us. The worst thing you could bring home from college back then was the crabs or maybe some burning pee.

By the time I went to college in '87 it was "have sex with the wrong person and you will die". It sorta put a damper on things.

So I blame you. And my bro - also class of '80.

 

Yeah, the worst we had to worry about was herpes simplex. Then it went to hell.

 

If you're both married to someone else, does that count as pre-marital? Is it even a sin, since your both married??