kinky sex and the christian

so what type of sex is okay for a christian? i mean, biblically, what is okay and what is taboo?

 

Genesis
19:30
And Lot went up out of Zoar, and dwelt in the mountain, and his two daughters with him; for he feared to dwell in Zoar: and he dwelt in a cave, he and his two daughters.

19:31
And the firstborn said unto the younger, Our father is old, and there is not a man in the earth to come in unto us after the manner of all the earth:

19:32
Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father.

19:33
And they made their father drink wine that night: and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.

19:34
And it came to pass on the morrow, that the firstborn said unto the younger, Behold, I lay yesternight with my father: let us make him drink wine this night also; and go thou in, and lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father.

19:35
And they made their father drink wine that night also: and the younger arose, and lay with him; and he perceived not when she lay down, nor when she arose.

19:36
Thus were both the daughters of Lot with child by their father.

 

Deuteronomy

Prisoners of War

21:10
When thou goest forth to war against thine enemies, and the LORD thy God hath delivered them into thine hands, and thou hast taken them captive,

21:11
And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife;

21:12
Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house, and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails;

21:13
And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.

21:14
And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt let her go whither she will; but thou shalt not sell her at all for money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled her.

 

Deuteronomy

22:28
If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found;

22:29
Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

22:30
A man shall not take his father's wife, nor discover his father's skirt.

 

Song of Solomon

1:13
A bundle of myrrh is my well-beloved unto me; he shall lie all night betwixt my breasts.

:naughty: Now we're talkin'.

 

I'm probably not as well-versed in this as I should be, but on that kink test voyer posted, I eliminated the following:

solo masturbation
porn
any option involving more than 2 people
same sex
domination
physical abuse

The more I think about it, the more I think anal might be out of Biblical bounds, but I'm not sure. If so, that's going to eliminate a fairly significant portion of that test. Also, sex during menstruation has been cited as a no-no in the Old Testament, but I don't know how much that still holds true.

The Bible isn't as prudish as some would suggest. Song of Solomon gets pretty racy. Oral is definitely within limits.

 

According to Filfh- None of the OT laws are valid since the NT came about. :huh:

 

Song of Solomon

5:4
My beloved put in his hand by the hole of the door, and my bowels were moved for him. :scared2: Grid??

5:5
I rose up to open to my beloved; and my hands dropped with myrrh, and my fingers with sweet smelling myrrh, upon the handles of the lock.

 

I preached a sermon last weekend in our high school services on why the OT was superceded by the NT. The passage I was assigned was Hebrews 8-10, and I ran across these verses, which I thought were a very interesting perception of the purpose of the OT...

 

Song of Solomon was written by a man with 700 wives and 700 concubines. You know he got busy. :naughty: